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    The 3 phases of suffering

    My friend and fabulous healer, Julia, recently suggested that the path from suffering to joy has three phases. In the first phase, we suffer and suffer about our suffering. We hate it, pure and simple. We want liberation from it. If it continues, we begin to feel a certain "rightness" to the suffering. We feel like it's a correct response to a certain kind of situation. Finally, we lose interest in our own suffering. We get tired of it and move onto joy. It becomes right not to choose suffering and embrace the truth of our joy instead.
    Tags » Appreciative living
    • 29 August 2007
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    over 4 years ago Lauren Muney responded:
    Your friend Julia is very wise. I have seen this also - but this is said VERY eloquently. Thank you!
    over 4 years ago Jack Ricchiuto responded:
    Thanks Lauren. The interesting dimension of suffering is the second phase where it becomes such a companion that we miss it and feel alone without it.
    over 4 years ago Holly responded:
    May we all get tired of suffering!
    over 4 years ago Jack Ricchiuto responded:
    True, that Holly

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